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Ruby’s Reading Circle

A gentle way to support families after pregnancy loss.

A bereavement library run by loss parents, Jake and Jenna Mills, in collaboration with the Star Legacy Foundation Chicago Chapter. At participating hospitals, Ruby’s Reading Circle is offered to newly bereaved parents as a gentle way to make a memory with their baby. Each book is donated in honor of a baby who came before, creating a circle of connection between families past and present.

Donate a book, gift a memory.

Where we serve

Partnering hospitals

Ruby’s Reading Circle is offered to newly bereaved parents at participating hospitals. We are growing the circle, with more to come.

  • Northwestern Medicine Prentice Women’s Hospital

  • Northwestern Medicine Lake Forest Hospital

Are you interested in hosting Ruby’s Reading Circle at your hospital?

Contact RRC

The book menu

Curated with intention

Books for Baby

Parents are invited to choose one of these books to read to their baby and keep as a cherished memento of their time together.

  • Cover of The Invisible String / El Hilo Invisible

    The Invisible String / El Hilo Invisible

    by Patrice Karst, Joanne Lew-Vriethoff

  • Cover of Wherever You Are: My Love Will Find You

    Wherever You Are: My Love Will Find You

    by Nancy Tillman

  • Cover of Un Beso en Mi Mano

    Un Beso en Mi Mano

    by Audrey Penn

  • Cover of That's Me Loving You

    That's Me Loving You

    by Amy Krouse Rosenthal

Books for Siblings

Families with living children are welcome to select an additional book designed to support siblings as they navigate this together.

  • Cover of Dear Star Baby

    Dear Star Baby

    by Malcolm Newsome

  • Cover of There Was a Baby...

    There Was a Baby...

    by Laura J. Cameron

  • Cover of The Garden of Memories

    The Garden of Memories

    by Playful & Active Mind Books

  • Cover of Everywhere, Still

    Everywhere, Still

    by M.H. Clark

How it works

A moment that lasts forever

When a family experiences a pregnancy loss, the world they had pictured, first cries, tiny hands, a future filled with firsts, quietly falls away. In the hush of the hospital room, amid a grief too vast for words, parents often don’t know what to do. How to be with their baby. How to make the brief time they have mean something.

This is where Ruby’s Reading Circle meets them. A nurse gently offers the program as a memory making opportunity. Parents are then able to choose one book from the menu to read aloud to their baby. In that moment, they get to experience something that all parents do: the simple act of reading to their child.

The book goes home with them. Long after the hospital room fades, it remains as a keepsake of a love that mattered, proof that their baby was here, and was loved. For families with other children, a sibling book helps brothers and sisters hold that love too.

Every book you donate becomes that moment for another family.

Dedicated in a baby’s name, it becomes a gift they will hold forever.

Donate a book
“While this moment is far from what families pictured, it is more precious than they may realize. When our daughter was stillborn in September 2024, one of our deepest regrets was not spending enough time with her before saying goodbye — we simply did not know how. This program is meant to encourage families to make a memory with their baby through a simple act that feels gentle and natural in a moment that is anything but.”

Jenna Mills — Ruby’s mom and project lead